I
heard a preacher recently say "God's love is unconditional" and I
thought to myself, is it? For some
reason that didn't really ring true to me so I decided to take a look at what
Scripture had to say on the issue. Here
is the conclusion that I came to.
John 3:16-19(NKJV)
16For God so loved the world that
He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish
but have everlasting life.
17For God did not send His Son into the
world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.
18“He who believes in Him is not condemned;
but he who does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed
in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
19And this is the condemnation, that the
light has come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light,
because their deeds were evil.
So
in the big general sense I believe it is correct to say that God's love is
unconditional. From the standpoint that
God sacrificed His own son for the good of all future mankind, that to me
demonstrates unconditional love.
But
on the other hand, on an individual basis, no I don't believe God's love is
unconditional. I think Scripture very
clearly tells us that. Now there are
many that will say "how can that be, look at I John 4:8."
1 John 4:8(NKJV)
8He who does not love does not know God, for God is love.
There
are a lot of people that take that simple verse and extrapolate it to mean that
God is so loving that He will always love us know matter what we do. That God is so loving that He would never
really condemn anyone to hell, He loves us too much.
I
believe this is false. While I agree that God is love, God is also
much more than that. One of the other
things that God is, is a Just God. The
whole point of Jesus' crucifixion and resurrection was that there was still a
blood price that had to be paid for our sins before we could be given eternal
life. That blood price had to be paid to
satisfy God's sense of justice.
Now
think about it, if God would subject His only son Jesus, who I think God might
love just a little bit more that the rest of us, to pay that price, what makes
you think that God loves everyone else so much that He will let them skip out
on the whole deal and give them eternal life any way. That would mean the death of His own son
would have been totally in vain. Does
that seem like something a Just God would accept?
Of
course not. Contrary to the God loves
everyone unconditionally concept let me share some scriptures with you that
tell us that there are people that God actually hates.
- Psalm 5:5, "The boastful shall
not stand before Thine eyes; Thou
dost hate all who do iniquity,"
- Psalm 11:5, "The Lord tests the
righteous and the wicked, and the one who loves
violence His soul hates."
- Lev. 20:23, "Moreover, you shall
not follow the customs of the nation which I shall drive out before you,
for they did all these things, and therefore I have abhorred them."
- Prov.
6:16-19,
"There are six things which the Lord hates, yes, seven which are an
abomination to Him: 17 Haughty eyes, a lying tongue, and hands that shed
innocent blood, 18 A heart that devises wicked plans, feet that run rapidly to evil,
19 A false witness
who utters lies, and one who spreads strife among brothers."
- Hosea 9:15, "All their evil is at
Gilgal; indeed, I came to
hate them there!
Because of the wickedness of their deeds I will drive them out of My
house! I will love them no more; All their princes are
rebels."
For
those that might be inclined to say "yeah but God loves them at the same
time" I suggest you re-read Hosea 9:15.
So
if on an individual basis God's love is conditional, what is it conditional on?
Accepting
Jesus as your Lord and Savior. Take a
look at John 3:16-19 again.
John 3:16-19(NKJV)
16For God so loved the world that He gave
His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have
everlasting life.
17For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn
the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.
18“He who believes in Him is not condemned; but he who does
not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of
the only begotten Son of God.
19And this is the condemnation, that the
light has come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light,
because their deeds were evil.
At
the point that you reject God's son Jesus, you have rejected God. You have chosen to be against God. Do you really think God loves you after you
have just called Him a liar? Do you
really think God loves you after you reject what His son did for you before you
were even born? Read John 17:6-9 and
then I'll make another point.
John 17:6-9(NKJV)
6“I have manifested Your name to the men whom You have
given Me out of the world. They were Yours, You gave them to Me, and they have
kept Your word.
7Now they have known that all things which
You have given Me are from You.
8For I have given to them the words which
You have given Me; and they have received them,
and have known surely that
I came forth from You; and they have believed that You sent Me.
9“I pray for them. I do not pray
for the world but for those whom You have given Me, for they are
Yours.
Here
we have Jesus speaking and He is telling us who He is praying for and why He is
praying for them. Is Jesus praying for
everybody? No. Jesus is only praying for those that "have known surely that I came
forth from You; and they have believed that You sent Me. " Those
that have rejected Jesus are known as the world and Jesus says specifically
that He isn't praying for them.
Here
is my question, if God loved every
individual unconditionally, why would He allow Jesus to exclude them from His
prayers?
Now
here is the good news. You get to chose
whether you experience God's love or not.
If you deny God then you have turned off the switch to God's love. But the cool thing is that God let's you
control that switch. You can turn it
right back on by admitting to God that you made a mistake in rejecting Jesus.
God
will never deny His love to anyone who asks, unless they have blasphemed the
Holy Spirit. Other than that, no matter
what you may have done, no matter what sins you may have committed, as long as
you believe that Jesus is God's son, that God sent Jesus to pay the price of
sin for all mankind, and you ask Jesus into your life, you will experience
God's love in ways you could never imagine.
So
what are you waiting for? Flip that
switch. Experience all of the love that
God has to offer. It's as simple as
saying this prayer: "Dear Jesus, I don't really get all of the details,
all of the ins and outs yet but the one thing I do get is that you are God's
son and you paid the price for my sin.
Please come into my life and lead me, help me to discover God's
love. Thank you so much! Amen."