I should probably
save this for Valentines Day but I'm in a silly mood today so I am going to use
it now.
Try this on your
spouse sometime.
"Oh baby, your
hair is like a flock of goats"
"You teeth are
like a flock of shorn sheep"
"Your neck is
built for an armory, strong enough to carry a 1000 shields"
Let me know how that
works for you. LOL!
This is a clear
example of "lost in translation".
You're probably wondering what the heck I am talking about. Well I've been reading Song of Solomon. Specifically chapter 4. Here is how it started.
Song of Songs 4:1-5(NKJV)
1The Beloved
Behold, you are fair, my love!
Behold, you are
fair! You have
dove’s eyes behind your veil. Your hair is like a flock of goats,
Going down from Mount Gilead.
2 Your teeth are like a flock of shorn sheep Which have come
up from the washing, Every one of which bears twins,
And none is
barren among them.
3 Your lips are like a strand of scarlet,
And your mouth is lovely. Your
temples behind your veil Are
like a piece of pomegranate.
4 Your neck is like the tower of David,
Built for an armory, On which
hang a thousand bucklers, All shields of mighty men.
5 Your two
breasts are like two fawns,
Twins of a gazelle, Which feed
among the lilies.
I guess back in the
day this was probably a great compliment.
I think today it's probably a great way to get slapped or to get your
spouse to not speak to you for a week or two, which may or may not be a bad
thing depending on your situation.
If you've never read
the Song of Solomon you're in for a real eye opener. Wow!
If it were re written in modern day language it would be a real bodice
buster. (Couldn't resist, had to see if
I could work that phrase in) But why is
it in the Bible? It seem so out of
place.
Well to answer that
question I'd like to use the comment that my daughter posted to what I wrote
yesterday. "I really enjoyed this
article! The Bible is the perfect guide to our lives- in every single aspect, even
politics and economics!"
That's right, the
Bible is the perfect guide to our lives-in every single aspect. So why would we not expect that guidance to
extend to our love lives, our sexuality,
and the way that we see and interact with our spouses in that area of
our lives.
I think we
Christians get a bad rap when it comes to sex.
So many of us are afraid to talk about it, afraid to enjoy it, afraid to embrace it, and I think that is
unfortunate because the Bible clearly says that God gave it to us as a gift to
be shared.
My wife goes to
Bible Study Fellowship. There was a
chapter they were studying recently where my wife made mention about how one
verse in particular could also be applied to the sexual relationship in
marriage and she was amazed at how many of the women came up to her afterwards
and thanked her for making that comment.
So many Christians simply feel constrained in this area.
We always felt that
part of our duty as parents was to model a great marriage. Because we believe that a great sex life is
part of a great marriage we always tried to model that, in age appropriate ways
of course. As an example the kids have
always seen us holding hands and kissing and hugging.
As a funny aside, as
the kids got older (mid to late teens) and knew what we were up to they of
course would try to embarrass us. We'd
give them money to go to the ice cream store and tell them not to come home for
an hour. With angelic smile on their
face they'd ask "Why don't you want us to come back for an
hour?" We'd just look back at them
and ask "Do you really want us to tell you?" "NO" Lol!
So what does the
Song of Solomon teach us? That they were
HOT for each other. This wasn't just a
procreation thing. They were passionately
hot for each other. If you haven't read
it in a while go back and give it another read.
Use it as inspiration as you make plans for your Valentine (if you're
married of course) this year!!!